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No Kids At The Wedding Please - How To Say It Tastefully
By Robin Williams, Sat Dec 10th

As much as you love your nieces, nephews and even your ownchildren, some of you know that an otherwise perfect day can betarnished by a misbehaving little one. You don't want to hurtanyone's feelings, so what should you do? If you don't mind kidsat your wedding, then this article is not for you. If your arein the other group, read on...

If you are reading this you are probably afraid of being labeledas selfish or a child hater, but this is your day. You plannedfor it, paid for it and deserve to have it the way you want.Even if you are being selfish, having paid a few thousanddollars or more says you have right to be!

Well enough of the pep talk. You must be open and honest fromthe very beginning. Waiting to long in fear of causing troublewill only make matters worse and leave you feeling even more"guilty" when some people were expecting to bring their littleones from the start. Most people will understand and some haveasked it for their own weddings, but there are still a few thatneed to be told. Here are some of the ways to get the messageacross early:

1. Send it with the invitation. That right. You could put it ona separate card and make a reference to it being an adults onlyevent. You may not want to say "no kids please" because thewords "adults only" is less likely to be seen negatively.

2. Call each and every person who you believe is coming

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and behonest and upfront. Don't take too long with the small talk andtry to end on a positive note. It would also be a good idea tohave babysitters in a separate room at the wedding in casesomeone forgets or just had to bring little Mark.

3. On that same note. If you just don't want to feel like youare a kid-hater, just make a point to have babysitters at yourwedding. This way no one will feel left out or "betrayed". Youstill have to contend with those parents AND children that haveseparation anxiety. You will have to make sure to tell them thatif they plan to bring children with them, they must be placedwith the babysitter you or they have provided, in a separateroom, no exceptions. Having a room with toys and bright colorscould peak a child's interest, but there is no gauruntee.

3. Use psychology. The statement, "This is a day to enjoyyourself too. Leave the kids at home (with our babysitter)",will definitely bring some of those not-so-understanding parentsto your corner. The parents with the most misbehaved kids willbe the first to identify with this statement.

If all else fails, just remember the important thing is that youare marrying the one you love and that nothing can change that!

Victoria Williams

www.nuptialparadise.com

About the author:Victoria Williams is the editor of the online magazine Wedding Planning FromWedding Dresses to Receptions - www.nuptialparadise.com